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Surviving Their Infidelity: A 2-Day Intensive Online Workshop in Betrayal Trauma for Therapists with
Wayne Baker, MA, LPC

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Workshop Description

This comprehensive, interactive workshop offers a framework grounded in IFS, trauma-informed care, somatic therapy, attachment theory, and relational neuroscience.


Clinicians will learn structured, phase-based interventions from acute discovery through relational repair. Instruction emphasizes how relational trauma affects the body, parts, attachment, and neurobiology.

 

Participants will co-regulate with colleagues, apply embodied safety interventions, recognize their own internal parts’ activations, and practice high-level clinical skills through case consultation and role-playing.

We offer this program because betrayal trauma is a unique and complex phenomenon. Most general trauma training does not address the subtle layers of gaslighting, secret keeping, emotional immaturity, developmental trauma, and wounding involved in infidelity. This workshop equips clinicians with the capacity, clarity, and clinical frameworks to offer trauma-informed, parts-based work to both individuals and couples navigating relational rupture.

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What to expect …..

Learning Objectives....

By the end of this 2-Day workshop, participants will be able to:


1. Describe betrayal trauma using the lenses of IFS, attachment, and trauma neuroscience.
2. Distinguish three treatment phases: Secret, Discovery, and Rebuilding, and apply phase-appropriate interventions.
3. Use IFS interventions to unblend clients from protective parts and restore access to Self.
4. Implement somatic techniques to stabilize nervous system dysregulation during sessions.
5. Apply IFS and EFT-informed tools to pace and repair disclosures within couple therapy contexts.
6. Engage with each partner’s developmental wounds without enabling or pathologizing.
7. Recognize and work with therapist parts that can interfere with clinical presence and progress.
8. Utilize neurobiological models to support clients toward internal coherence and relational safety.
9. Guide clients through choice, accountability, and boundary-setting processes while honoring sovereignty and vulnerability.

A little about Wayne.....

Wayne Baker, LPC, brings over 20 years of clinical and training experience focused on betrayal trauma, infidelity recovery, and relational healing. He is a certified IFS therapist with extensive training in couples therapy models, somatic approaches, and attachment theory.

Wayne is a sought-after presenter for both academic and professional settings. He integrates rigorous trauma-informed care with embodied and systemic perspectives.

 

His calm presence and capacity for deep attunement support clinicians in navigating the complexity of relational rupture with both clinical acuity and compassionate presence. 

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Workshop particulars

Applications are now open for this 2-day online workshop in June 2026

 

This workshop will be delivered over two days as follows:

  • Friday, September 18th, 2026 

  • Saturday, September 19th, 2026

This online workshop is llimited to 40 participants and all participants must be deeply IFS informed as we will not be covering the basic principles of IFS during the workshop. An application form will be available to you once you register your interest and your place on the workshop will only be confirmed once a $500 non-refundable deposit is received. We require a minimum of 24 applicants for this workshop to proceed. If we do not get the required numbers for the workshop to proceed, we will refund all fees paid to Souliology for the workshop cost only. Thank you.

IMPORTANT: Please read our FAQS page on this website. The FAQS page provides general information which you may find useful. If after reading it you have any further questions, please feel free to email us at contact@souliology.com.​​​​

Surviving Their Infidelity: A 2-Day Intensive Online Workshop in Betrayal Trauma

2-Day Online Workshop Schedule – This is a broad outline of what the schedule will look like but please note it is subject to change at the workshop leaders discretion.

  • Friday, September 18th, 2026 - 10am - 5pm ET, USA

  • Saturday, September 19th, 2026 - 10am - 5pm ET, USA

Friday - September 18th

Saturday - September 19th

10am – 1pm

1pm - 2pm

2pm - 5pm 

10am – 1pm

1pm - 2pm

2pm - 5pm 

Morning Session

Lunch

Afternoon Session

Morning Session

Lunch

Afternoon Session

Your Investment:

Total Online Workshop Cost: - $500 (USD) per participant which is strictly non-refundable and non-transferable.

Applications are now open for this online workshop with Dr Wayne Baker who is an expert in his field. 

If you are interested in participating, please register your interest. You will then be directed automatically to a registration form for completion. Only applicants who complete a full registration form will be considered for this workshop. Once your registration is approved we will advise you formally by sending you an acceptance email and it is only at this point that we will request a non-refundable payment of $500 to secure your place on this workshop

Thank you.

IMPORTANT: Please read our FAQS page on this website for further guidelines and information about our policies and the arrangements we have in place in the unlikely event the workshop leader is not in a position to attend. The FAQS page also provides further general information which you may find useful. If after reading the FAQS page you have any further queries, please feel free to email us at contact@souliology.com.

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